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rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://blog.pflag.org/feeds/6336542757748653157/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/6336542757748653157/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.pflag.org/2012/01/in-his-absence.html'/><author><name>PFLAG</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/10054263509171912102</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>7</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6511042038282376179.post-1104363422628627164</id><published>2012-01-27T15:36:09.505-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-27T15:36:09.505-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Kathy, your son Aeryn was a good friend to me at F...</title><content type='html'>Kathy, your son Aeryn was a good friend to me at FUS and I will help you find justice and some closure In this case as best I can. Who do we need to write to and I&amp;#39;ll fire off a letter?</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/6336542757748653157/comments/default/1104363422628627164'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/6336542757748653157/comments/default/1104363422628627164'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.pflag.org/2012/01/in-his-absence.html?showComment=1327696569505#c1104363422628627164' title=''/><author><name>Michael</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/14657080548962088272</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='24' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_gXvzlMRLTOk/SSdEuDW_b7I/AAAAAAAAAAM/wldZJpnaUow/S220/graduation3.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.pflag.org/2012/01/in-his-absence.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6511042038282376179.post-6336542757748653157' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/posts/default/6336542757748653157' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-134055667'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6511042038282376179.post-583997363112436221</id><published>2012-01-15T19:09:22.202-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-15T19:09:22.202-05:00</updated><title type='text'>This is a well-written and deeply moving post.  I&amp;...</title><content type='html'>This is a well-written and deeply moving post.  I&amp;#39;d heard a little of Aeryn&amp;#39;s story before, but I hadn&amp;#39;t realized the cops displayed such open homophobia.  Reading the details of your son&amp;#39;s personality, I felt that he would be a wonderful person to know.  His disappearance is a tragedy.  I&amp;#39;m so sorry your family has gone through this heartbreak and I hope you can find justice and answers.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/6336542757748653157/comments/default/583997363112436221'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/6336542757748653157/comments/default/583997363112436221'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.pflag.org/2012/01/in-his-absence.html?showComment=1326672562202#c583997363112436221' title=''/><author><name>Aishlin</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16131568557700212240</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.pflag.org/2012/01/in-his-absence.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6511042038282376179.post-6336542757748653157' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/posts/default/6336542757748653157' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-175839504'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6511042038282376179.post-6037845292127363320</id><published>2012-01-15T18:41:23.040-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-15T18:41:23.040-05:00</updated><title type='text'>This story never fails to make me shake my head in...</title><content type='html'>This story never fails to make me shake my head in disbelief at how the case was handled and how Kathy has been treated. I will keep praying for you all, that you will get answers to what happened.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/6336542757748653157/comments/default/6037845292127363320'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/6336542757748653157/comments/default/6037845292127363320'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.pflag.org/2012/01/in-his-absence.html?showComment=1326670883040#c6037845292127363320' title=''/><author><name>phoebeholmes.com</name><uri>http://phoebeholmes.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/openid16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.pflag.org/2012/01/in-his-absence.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6511042038282376179.post-6336542757748653157' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/posts/default/6336542757748653157' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-33696384'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6511042038282376179.post-4122551902026706739</id><published>2012-01-15T18:23:05.995-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-15T18:23:05.995-05:00</updated><title type='text'>This story breaks my heart every time I think abou...</title><content type='html'>This story breaks my heart every time I think about it.  I hope our government helps you get some answers.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/6336542757748653157/comments/default/4122551902026706739'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/6336542757748653157/comments/default/4122551902026706739'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.pflag.org/2012/01/in-his-absence.html?showComment=1326669785995#c4122551902026706739' title=''/><author><name>Shelby</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06218768082478959894</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='25' height='32' src='http://bp2.blogger.com/_QAy97h7s0J0/SEcIn2Ta9II/AAAAAAAAAAM/0lfNcVBhBSw/S220/Romeo+close2.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.pflag.org/2012/01/in-his-absence.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6511042038282376179.post-6336542757748653157' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/posts/default/6336542757748653157' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-428439567'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6511042038282376179.post-401381424298559379</id><published>2012-01-14T22:13:42.697-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-14T22:13:42.697-05:00</updated><title type='text'>How sad and frightening that anyone could lose the...</title><content type='html'>How sad and frightening that anyone could lose their child like this. I am heartbroken to think that your grown son can just disappear like he did with no clues and no help from the police. I pray you get answers Kathy. How absurd that anyone could judge a person on their sexuality and that alone. Your love for your beautiful son shines through this post. Thank you for sharing with us all.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/6336542757748653157/comments/default/401381424298559379'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/6336542757748653157/comments/default/401381424298559379'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.pflag.org/2012/01/in-his-absence.html?showComment=1326597222697#c401381424298559379' title=''/><author><name>alexmarie</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04965551280662387792</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.pflag.org/2012/01/in-his-absence.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6511042038282376179.post-6336542757748653157' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/posts/default/6336542757748653157' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-634020488'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6511042038282376179.post-8827184225486968157</id><published>2012-01-14T15:37:39.720-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-14T15:37:39.720-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Kathy, we love you and we love Aeryn.  I want him ...</title><content type='html'>Kathy, we love you and we love Aeryn.  I want him to come home --as you describe him, I can see him so well.  The injustice in this case is so glaring...I don&amp;#39;t know how these civil servants can live with themselves.  love you,</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/6336542757748653157/comments/default/8827184225486968157'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/6336542757748653157/comments/default/8827184225486968157'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.pflag.org/2012/01/in-his-absence.html?showComment=1326573459720#c8827184225486968157' title=''/><author><name>Jessica</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/11082276329280651739</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.pflag.org/2012/01/in-his-absence.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6511042038282376179.post-6336542757748653157' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/posts/default/6336542757748653157' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1244122779'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6511042038282376179.post-5430058830666340458</id><published>2012-01-14T15:03:22.308-05:00</published><updated>2012-01-14T15:03:22.308-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Kathy, I hope you get some answers. I can&amp;#39;t ev...</title><content type='html'>Kathy, I hope you get some answers. I can&amp;#39;t even begin to imagine what it is like to not know what happenend to your child. I pray for you and your family that you may have peace.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/6336542757748653157/comments/default/5430058830666340458'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/6336542757748653157/comments/default/5430058830666340458'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://blog.pflag.org/2012/01/in-his-absence.html?showComment=1326571402308#c5430058830666340458' title=''/><author><name>Deesdrib</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06630713023747444972</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://blog.pflag.org/2012/01/in-his-absence.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6511042038282376179.post-6336542757748653157' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/6511042038282376179/posts/default/6336542757748653157' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1565921430'/></entry></feed>
